If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. We need to learn to want what we have, not to have what we want, in order to get stable and steady happiness.
The goal is not to be better than the other man, but your previous self. To conquer oneself is a greater victory than to conquer thousands in a battle. Your philosophy is simple kindness.” Dalai Lama It is under the greatest adversity that there exists the greatest potential for doing good, both for oneself and others. Your own mind, your own heart is the temple.